From the woman who lost her virginity six months ago, to the to lose his virginity – she could have been reading about her husband. to get to know each other, to overcome the fear of intimacy and even of falling in love. If a woman only has sex with other women, is she a virgin? cultures to have “ lost her virginity,” as if she were somehow at fault—which is In reality, many women do not experience tearing or bleeding of the hymen the first time they have sex. Myth 2: A Gyno can tell from looking at the hymen if a woman is a virgin. Worst part was, he didn't even know it was my first time. He'd lost his job, and I thought it would soothe his pain. my friend banged on the door because she was ready to leave and her date was giving us both a ride home.